Enneagram coaching

What glasses are you looking through?

To be who you really are, it is useful to know which survival strategy you operate from in this physical body. It is often iprecisely this strategy that allows us to live, yet limits us in fully experiencing our being.

Our right to exist does not need to be earned, but we humans are unconsciously convinced that this is the case. That is why, at a very young age, we choose a survival strategy with corresponding behavior. Enneagram coaching looks through behavior to the unconscious motivations that belong to one of the nine human types and world views as distinguished in the Enneagram, a very powerful tool for understanding ourselves and others. It is an ancient model of nine interconnected personality types that is seen as a symbol of unity and diversity, of change and transformation.

The unconscious motivations or drives are nothing more or less than a set of beliefs. By understanding our motivations, we change from simply being a plaything of our unconscious rapid which do their work according to a certain pattern. We discover that we have a choice in what we do and don’t do. When you know your own drives, you also understand what is yours and what is the other person’s, because you learn to see that someone else is looking at you through a completely different lens. Consciousness grows by understanding which box we have placed ourselves in, with all the limiting beliefs that come with this. We don’t have to un-learn anything in the process, as the qualities that come with our survival strategy are worth their weight in gold! To create more balance however, we can choose to try something new.

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